Thought for the Day


"Oh, it is wonderful to know that our Heavenly Father loves us - even with all our flaws! His love is such that even should we give up on ourselves, He never will. We see ourselves in terms of yesterday and today. Our Heavenly Father sees us in terms of forever. Although we might settle for less, Heavenly Father won't, for He sees us as the glorious beings we are capable of becoming."

- Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin

Thursday, November 29, 2007

Lonely

I always feel so lonely after loved ones leave. They joke, "now you can get back to your life" with the attitude that I'll be glad their gone; that having them here was so difficult and cut into my life. I don't think anyone understands just how much I look forward to my time with my loved ones - they ARE my life!!!

My In-Laws were here for Thanksgiving. They flew in Thanksgiving morning and left Monday evening. And we had SO much fun with them. Thanksgiving turned out so Yummy! And Bret and I got to shop Black Friday (is it just me, or does the name of this day sound so naughty?). We LOVE Black Friday and have even been known to take all 4 kids with us - I have great tips for others who have insane ideas of what you'll do for a sale. This year Bret's parents watched the kids for us. HEAVEN!!! Well, heaven for me - not so much for Bret. Who doesn't enjoy the day of all sales accompanied by my sweetie, a Mt. Dew, and a breakfast burrito from McD's?!
We also went to the Swap Meet and played a bunch of games (kids and grown-ups). We had date night with Mom & Dad and generally had lots of fun.

And inevitably it was time for them to leave. And I HATE after the hugs have been given and the bags loaded in the car and Bret drives off with Mom & Dad taking them to the airport. I always look around the house and wonder where the time went. And I also think, "now how many days till they come back?!"
My life is simple and boring. I love it (most days), but it's plain. Its the perks like this weekend that give me something to live for! :) LOL

So yes, now I can get back to my life (big sigh and a little pout). Mom & Dad V. - when you guys coming?! (wink) Just kidding!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Would love to visit, but get so worried about g'pa's v getting really sick.

Heidi said...

You could come to my house & I can make you forget about your relatives! Or I can bring my kids there & they can help you appreciate when people leave? LOL!